By Invitation Only
Part of the whole on-the-internet-thing is privacy. That is why we run a private web site. You're either involved or not. If you found your way here you might be involved. But we need to know if you are cool or not.
You have to Know Someone
That is what it boils down to. If you want in, you have to know someone who is in. If you don't then you need to find someone and politely ask for an invitation. Someone has to vouch for you.
It is all a question of scalability. As the venues grow larger and more exotic we will open them up to larger groups.
You are free to submit a suggestion for where you would like us to have an event.