Your sofa is your Comfort Zone
You know your own sofa. You sit there often enough. Get up off of it & go find another sofa. Go do something that you have never done before. Find yourself some Strange Sofa.
Make Something Happen
The One in Three Rule
Your sofa is nice! 2 out of 3 times you would have been better off just staying on it. But one out of 3 times you Discover something worth doing again. Isn't that worth slogging through the crap?
One in Three times things are going to work out. That is an average. You need to try a lot of things and learn as you go.
The more you try - the luckier you get.